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Dear Ruthie,
My daughter suffers from Trump Derangement Syndrome, and my husband and I can’t take it anymore. Not only does she disrespect our President, but her need to convert us to her way of thinking is overwhelming. Her hate for Donald Trump is too much. She needs to see a professional to help her deal with this obsession.
It’s to a point we don’t want her coming around sometimes. How can we stop her from talking politics and trying to change our political views?
Make It Stop,
Upset & Worried
Dear Worried,
“Trump Derangement Syndrome” is a partisan, political insult. It is not a psychiatric diagnosis. You offer no evidence that her interest in politics affects her daily life other than annoying the heck out of you and possibly causing a riff in your relationship.
Many families struggle with opposing political views, and the way we discuss and debate those views can interrupt relationships. I suggest turning your home into a no-politics zone.
Let your daughter know that you no longer wish to talk politics in your house with anyone, including her. Tell her you love her, and you understand her political views are important to her but that you’re declaring no-political talk in your home. Be sure you and hubby follow suit and start rebuilding your parent-child relationship today.
Ruthie’s Social Calendar
July 7—Karaoke Mondays at Pop (124 W. National Ave.): Join local legend Iconika Strange for this 9 p.m. night that’s sure to kick off your workweek with a smile. Sing a song or simply sit back and watch the fun and enjoy Pop’s savory menu items and craft cocktails.
July 9—Beyond the Binary Networking Event at Cactus Club (2496 S. Wentworth Ave.): Whether you're seeking career advice or hoping to expand your professional network, this night is for you. The Wisconsin LGBT Chamber of Commerce hosts the 4-6 p.m. event for trans and non-binary professionals, which promises to set participants up for success. See www.wislgbtchamber.com for registration and details.
July 12—2025 African Cultural Festival at Brown Deer Park (7835 N. Green Bay Road): Stop by this 11 a.m. to 8 p.m. celebration and you’ll find music, food, laughter and fun! Immerse yourself in this rich culture with traditional dances, art exhibits, craft vendors, a fashion show, marketplace, children’s activities and more.
July 16—80’s Ladies: Featuring Dear Ruthie at Milwaukee Night Market (West Wisconsin Avenue between Second Street and Vel R. Phillips Avenue): Join me and my gal-pals for a celebration of the ‘80s at this Cream City bash. The fun starts at 5 p.m., with our musical tribute stepping off at 6:45 p.m.
July 17-20—Leathermen Fetish Weekend Unhinged at The Farm (N8287 St. Hwy 57, Hilbert): The leather social group Friends of the Castaways MC of MKE hosts this annual camping event featuring all the fun you can handle. From the food and booze to the shows, games and discussion groups, this is male bonding at its best. See www.castawaysmc.org for registration, accommodations and more.
July 22—Out in the Kitchen at Discovery World (376 N. Harbor Drive): Hit up this annual event and you’ll enjoy fantastic food samples from 20 of the city’s favorite restaurants, pubs and cafes. Nosh your way through the 6-8 p.m. tasting and you’re sure to find a few new favorites. See www.eventbrite.com for tickets.
July 26 – Drag Race & Bar Crawl at Various Locations in Walker’s Point: This memorable fundraiser kicks off at Pop (124 W. National Ave.) with a 2 p.m. registration before a hilarious drag race (164 feet). Afterward, you’ll receive a “passport” directing you to Walker’s Point bars. Get a drink at each, and you’ll be entered in a raffle drawing! See www.dragracemke.com for more.
Have a question for Ruthie? Want to share an event with her? Contact Ruthie at DearRuthie@ShepEx.com.
