Why can’t I find a lubricant that is paraben- and glycerin-free, as well as aloe? They are burning and irritate me.I get lots of questions about lubricant. It’s supposed to make sex more pleasurable, yet it can also cause so many problems—b... more

Feb 26, 2014 2:21 AM Sexpress 1 Comments

You’d mentioned in your “Anal Explorations, Part 2: Long-Term Plug Wear” article of July 2010 that one aspect to be careful of was the tendency for lubricants, especially water-based, to be bodily absorbed and leave one stuck in a dry si... more

Nov 7, 2013 2:45 AM Sexpress 1 Comments

Recently, I wrote about toxic sex toys and a new non-profit, Dildology, whose mission is to independently lab-test different toys to see what they actually contain. This week, Dildology released the results of one of their first more

Jul 11, 2013 10:32 PM Sexpress 1 Comments

My wife and I have been married for five years and we have been together for ten. Ever since marriage, our sex life dropped to an unhealthy level of about one time per month on average. A couple of weeks ago more

May 30, 2013 2:15 AM Sexpress 3 Comments

What is the best position for anal masturbation when you are by yourself? As with last month's reader question about face-to-face anal sex, there's no one “best” position for solo anal play. Everyone's body and physical abiliti more

Jun 28, 2012 12:00 AM Sexpress 2 Comments