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The Tool Shed, a locally owned Milwaukee erotic boutique, issponsoring Milwaukee SHARE (Sexual HealthAnd Relationship Education). The weeklong sexuality education event runs April 3 throughApril 10, and will focus on provid.. more

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Ruthie answers a question from a reader hoping to spice things up at home with his husband and plugs exciting events including Kink Night at Hybrid Lounge, Jan. 8; White Elephant Gift Exchange at the Milwaukee LGBT Community Center, Jan. 10... more

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Laura Anne Stuart addresses a question from a reader who has just learned that her husband is a crossdresser and wonders what this means about his identity, future actions and their relationship. more

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Laura Anne Stuart fields a question about potential effects of nipple pincher/clamp use on breastfeeding. Madison Young, a kinky artist-director-actress and a new mother, weighs in on the issue. more

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Laura Anne Stuart discusses body-safe vaginal moisturizers. more

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Laura Anne Stuart fields a question from a reader who experiences pain or lack of sensation when close to orgasm. more

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Laura Anne Stuart addresses a question from a reader wondering about HPV transmission between women. more

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After meeting with college students for a sex Q&A, Laura Anne Stuart discusses sexual boundaries, how they may change over time and healthy strategies for communicating with partners about them. more

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I am a 26-year-old male in a three-year relationship with my 23-year-old girlfriend. I have tried to have multiple conversations about our sex life. She is unresponsive and makes me feel like I’m a freak because more

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One of the most frequently asked questions at the Tool Shed concerns sex toys made of glass. This question usually comes up as people walk past the case where our glass toys are displayed and say something like, “Oooh...glass. Those are so... more

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Any time I teach a “Sex Toys 101” class, I talk about the materials from which these toys are made. Most Americans assume that if you can buy something in a store, it more

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How big should a guy be to wear or actually fit into a Magnum condom? Do normal ones really inhibit their pleasure that much?I believe that condoms in different sizes and shapes are absolutely necessary to men’s comfort and pleasure, and I ... more

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Every once in a while at Ye Olde Sex Toy Shoppe, there seems to be a distinct uptick in people coming in to ask about a specific topic. Recently, we’ve had quite a few folks seeking more information about using dilators to make vaginal pene... more

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I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a little over two years now. While we have an active sex life and I enjoy that in general, I don’t really get all that excited about physical sex itself. I like making out and fooling around and more

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Recently, I attended Momentum, a conference on feminism, sexuality and relationships. There were many thought-provoking sessions (I was especially intrigued by Esther Perel’s closing statements on sex and the American work ethic), but I le... more

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What is the easiest way to have anal sex and look your partner in the face?People of all genders, and partners of all gender combinations, enjoy anal sex for many different reasons, and there are as many different creative more

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I’m 4-foot-11, and I had sexual intercourse with a man who was 6-foot-7. I found that the sex we had was hard for me to deal with when it came to the positions that we did. I’ve always thought that my height is the problem in my relationshi... more

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Every year, I am part of a panel of “sexperts” at a national college peer education conference. Our goal: to answer as many anonymous sex questions as possible in 60 minutes. We always receive a fair number of questions on the more

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What do people do about leg or arm cramps when bound? This is a problem for us.Nothing like a muscle cramp to cut short a good play session. Since different things work for different people, I collected answers to your question more

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I’ve been quite worried lately about my sex life with my partner. He’s great, but I can’t seem to get off. I have many times before, but only with myself and from stimulating the clitoris. Could you give us some tips on how I can actually h... more

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