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Dear Ruthie,
I’m an uncle to nieces and nephews who are not well behaved. They give me a headache 20 seconds into being in their presence.
The kids have no boundaries and are constantly screaming. We've been to restaurants where the kids run around while their parents say, “They have a lot of energy, let them get it out!”
Is it okay to correct a child in front of their parents? Am I supposed to sit there and let the kids take over while their parents do nothing?
Signed,
Frustrated Unk
Dear Unk,
What’s that noise? Why, it’s the sound of thousands of readers simultaneously applauding this letter!
You could correct the kids in front of their parents, but that’s likely going to create a whole other set of problems for you. In addition, it’s not your nephews and nieces putting you in awkward situations; it’s their parents!
While you surely love the kids, that doesn’t mean you have to put yourself in uncomfortable situations. Consider decreasing time spent with your sister’s family but tell her why. Explain that her children’s behavior stresses you out, so you’re being selective about the time you spend with her family.
Hopefully, she’ll get the message, and the rest of your family will support your decision. Keep me updated!
Ruthie’s Social Calendar
October 10—Business Equality Luncheon at Saint Kate Arts Hotel(139 E. Kilbourn Ave.): One of Cream City Foundation’s largest events, this 11 a.m. luncheon offers networking opportunities, guest speakers, panelists and benefits key to today’s local LGBTQ+ business owners. Learn more at creamcityfdn.org.
October 10—Mateo Lane “Can’t Stop Talking Tour” at The Pabst Theatre (144 E. Wells St.): Funny, feisty and a little furry, Mateo Lane has taken the LGBTQ+ comedy scene to new heights. Don’t miss the fun when this hilarious hottie hits the stage at 7:30 p.m. See pabsttheatergroup.com for tickets.
October 12—50th Anniversary Celebration and Fundraiser for BESTD Clinic at
Radio Milwaukee (158 S. Barclay St.): Appetizers, cocktails, a drag show and more make this 6 p.m. celebration one you won’t want to miss. Raise a glass to one of the community’s most-valuable resources when you purchase tickets at zeffy.com.
October 13—Hocus Pocus Drag Brunch at Milwaukee Improv(201110 Lower Union St., Brookfield): Windy City diva Lucy Stoole hosts this nod to everyone’s favorite Halloween flick. The 2-4 p.m. brunch is for those over 21 only, so leave the kiddies at home. Swing by ticketweb.com and nab your spot today.
October 18—Firehouse Friday: Ruthie’s All-Live Cabaret at Story Hill Firehouse (407 N. Hawley Road): My crew and I are back with another cabaret! Join me for a night of live music, comedy and more. Doors open at 6 p.m. with a cash bar, followed by the show at 7 p.m. See eventbrite.com for tickets.
October 25—Dia de los Muertos at The Mitchell Park Domes (524 S. Layton Blvd.): Music, dancing, food, a light show…these are just a few of the delights you’ll discover during this 6-9 p.m. party. Learn more when you purchase tickets via www.eventbrite.com.
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