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Is life a cabaret? I hope so! Particularly because I’m launching “Ruthie’s Big Gay Cabaret” at La Cage on April 13. I’ve always had a dream to host a cabaret show with all-live singing, a band, phenomenal guests, witty banter and such. Now that it’s happening, and I have to say that I’m freaking out a bit.
Sometimes reaching a goal or making a dream come true can be scary, however. Thoughts of failure, overwhelming to-do lists, intimidating goals and fear of the unknown can make anyone shy away from tackling new challenges. That seems to be the case of the fellow who shared the below message with me (and, boy, can I relate!). Let’s take a minute to help him out, shall we?
Dear Ruthie,
I was recently offered a promotion that would improve my money situation and life overall. I’m kind of freaking out, though, because I’m not sure I’m up to the job. I’d have a lot of people to answer to and I’d be a manager which is also new to me. I want to take the job but I’m feeling really insecure about it. Any words of wisdom?
Sincerely,
Basic Brandon
Dear Brandon,
Go for it! When the universe tosses you an opportunity like this, nab it! Someone at your company obviously thinks you’re ready for the challenge, so give it a shot.
So many people suffer from imposter syndrome—feeling you’re a phony despite your experience, knowledge or previous successes. This causes people to doubt their skills and talents and not realize their overall awesomeness. Whatever you do, don’t let imposter syndrome run your life and miss out on wonderful opportunities such as this one.
Take the job. Take a deep breath, trust in those who believe in you and focus on your greatness. Surround yourself with smart, effective uplifting people. Accept the fact that you don’t even know what you don’t know…and understand that in time you’ll learn more and more—and more! You can do this. Now, go conquer that new job, honey!
Ruthie’s Social Calendar
March 29 – Ruthie’s Dining with the Divas at Hamburger Mary’s (730 S. Fifth St.): I’m hosting this wild night of burgers, beer, booze and bawdy broads! Make reservations for my 7:30 p.m. drag show at hamburgermarys.com.mke, or reserve a table for my Saturday “Brunch with the Brunchettes” the following day at 2 p.m.
March 29—C*nty in Chrome Party at This Is It (418 E. Wells St.): Billed as a “BeyHive Hoedown,” this bash serves up all the Beyonce you can handle. Grab your cowboy hat, boots and tight-ass jeans, and come ready to party the night away to her new album, “Renaissance Act II.” The 21+ event starts at 9 p.m.
March 30—Mr. Gay Wisconsin USofA at Five Night Club (5 Applegate Court, Madison): The guys take center stage during this 8 p.m. pageant that’s sure to be the highlight of your month. Watch as some of the state’s most talented entertainers compete for this coveted title when you pay the $10 door charge. You can also reserve a table for $20 by simply emailing kmichaelwiusofa19@gmail.com.
March 31—Easter Lunch at Harbor Room (117 E. Greenfield Ave.): Celebrate spring with your chosen family when you enjoy a 1 p.m. buffet of classic Easter eats. You’ll also find a 50/50 raffle taking place as well as a special treat with your first drink purchase.
March 31—Opening Night "Trans Enough: Trans Day of Visibility” Art Exhibit at Milwaukee LGBT Community Center (315 W. Court St.): Empowering everyone under the trans umbrella, this exhibit highlights various coming out stories as told through artistic endeavors. Open to the public, the debut runs 5-8 p.m. Stop by mkelgbt.org to learn more.
April 2 & 3—Auditions for “Kinky Boots” at Waukesha Civic Theater(264 W. Main St.): Don’t miss your chance to be part of this spectacular production. Waukesha Civic Theater is casting for all roles, so you have plenty of chances to get involved. Try outs run 6 to 9 p.m. but see waukeshacivictheatre.org for audition forms and more.
Have a question for Ruthie? Want to share an event with her? Contact Ruthie at DearRuthie@ShepEx.com.
